Sunday, February 18, 2007

Muli Shani? (How are you in Bemba). It is my first of 3 birthdays in Zambia and luckily today is the day we are in Lusaka for internet use...boo yeah. I wrote a detailed letter that mom will post at a later date, but I wanted to give a quick update now. I moved in with my host family 2 weeks ago and it has been quite a change. I live with a woman with a heart of gold and her 4 grand children in a house near the town of Chongway. I am one of 3 volunteers that has an urban home for training because there were a shortage of Bemba speaking families near the training center. So I have a cement room near my families house with electricity and a tin roof. Living with a family is full of what I like to call trials and triumphs. It is incredible to be in a Zambian house hold, see how they live, work and eat. I am treated like a queen and a child all at the same time. Bamaayo (my mother) wakes me every morning with bathing water and tea. My 3 sisters want to carry my bags and my brother studies Bemba with me every night and goes running with me every day. I don't think I could go out alone if I tried...so no worries there. Because 3 of us live near the town, everybody seems to know everything about us. It's actually quite remarkable...the province we are in natively speaks Nyanja and Soli, but EVERYONE knows that the "mizungu" (foreign/white) girls are learning Bemba, so they speak to us in that language. People here typically speak 2-3 tribal languages and English. Speaking of....BEMBA is HARD. There are only 15 letters in the alphabet, EVERY word ends in a vowel, and every combination of letters is a different word, even the pronunciation of the same word can have multiple meanings...so needless to say language has been a huge struggle. I miss Spanish. It is however, an incredibly fun language....lots of fun letter combinations like njeleleniko (excuse me), and my favorite fosholo (shovel). Ohhh and another thing there are letters that should never be put together...like nj, nd, nsh, combinations that my mouth physically won't say. But it's only been 2 weeks, I will succeed! Living near the BOMA (town) also has its ups and downs. I am near the market and shops for sweeties (candy), but also near the LOUD cheezy bar music that blares all through the night and endless Ama Guys (Zambian dudes) that offer proposals (respectfully). People are incredibly friendly, almost to a point of innocently invading the "bubble" that Americans like to have. Just an image...me running down the tarmak (main road) with the Zambian sun setting in the HUGE sky and a PACK of kids running behind my brother and I. They love it. Some kids will run the entire 3 miles in bare feet, girls will run in skirts and flip flops behind. It's absolutely awe inspiring. I love it. As far as the future goes, I will be assigned a site at the beginning of March, be sworn in (after passing language and tech tests) the end of March and leave for my very own mud hut in April. I still have a LOT to learn and a lot of language to master. I will have a 2 week site visit in a month to a location near my post where I will meet my clinic staff and get to know my area. The first 3 months is community entry where I will basically try to meet the villagers and explain my purpose. It is nuts that I, and 38 other volunteers, committed 2 years to something I really knew very little about. As things come together I am more and more excited to be out in the bush working on decentralization and sustainable change....Ahhh there is so much to tell. so much to say. so little time! I will try to write later today (there is quite a line for this computer). Until then, thank you for your LOVE!!!!! Shalenipo Mukway (stay well)
lisa

8 comments:

Unknown said...

Hey Lis!!!

That sounds like a lot of fun!!! A LOT of fun! I would love to go to Africa someday (although 2 years ago I never could have imagined myself saying this). Bemba sounds like a really tough language, do they use our alphabetical letters? That may make it a tiny bit easier than asian languages, right? Probably not, however. That was one thing w/ Thai that made it tough, along with the tones. There is actually a sentence that goes "Mai Mai Mai Mai?" When enunciated correctly means "Did you burn the new wood?" We joked about that phrase a lot. Love you Lis!!! So proud of you! So happy for you!!!

Lisa Sekulich said...

Lisa honey
Thanks for the pictures, the people are beautiful.
Love you and am incredibly awed and proud of you.
mom

Unknown said...

Lisa, glad you're doing well
I told you about the daily proposals didn't I? i'll mail that book as soon as i find it, hopefully before i leave for guate in 5 weeks! Enjoy that tasteless ball of carbs (they had a similar thing in ghana made of cassava and plantain called fufu and they have it in nigeria too) seriously i gained like 10 lbs on that stuff so keep up the running. have you played soccer with the kids? take care love you- chris

AP said...

Wow, how descriptive, how interesting, how insiteful, how exotic, how heartfelt, how wonderful. I taste you, I see you, I feel you, I love you. AP

Unknown said...

lisaaaaaaaaaaa!!! holy moly i don't even know where to begin. i have been dying for this update. HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY we toasted our tea to you under the stars and on our walk during the sunset i sobbed about how much i love you and how much i missed you. we wrote all this to you in letters that god bless africa, who knows if you'll ever recieve.
BEMBA holy shit. sounds like you'd give anything to sit in por classe con vero :) sounds roughly similar to kimaasai and by that i mean pure jibberish :)
lis i loved the discription of the running on the roads... your pic of the red road out of a car is exacatly what ours looks like... and the kids they just join it is great. here too. in their uniforms and flip flops- we have all on different occasions run with the same kids.

IF YOU ONLY KNEW HOW MUCH I THINK OF YOU and how deeply connected i feel to you knowing we are eating seemingly strange food that you just better not even think to hard about, and staring up at orion and the same prominent constellations of the southern hemisphere. ahhh the stars.... lori and ad had to pick up and dust the red dirt off my chin night one out here in merrueshi- better known as the middle of nowhere :) so so so so much to say. but most of it is in the letter i just wrote you.

IMPORTANT: when can we visit? is it possible to do so while you are still with your host family, or should we wait until you are placed. we have the middle to end of april (school is on break- ps we are bonefide teachers in merrueshi these days-) or the first two weeks of june. are you thinking of comming here/tanzania for victoria falls? could you possibly climb kili with gu? april 22- may 3 i think i am going to try to join.

i miss you soooooooo terribly and on our 8 hour long god forsaked matatu ride into nairobi this morning (that began with a two hour wait and then a flat tire- god bless africa) as we bounced (this is an understatement) down the road i was regretting for the FIRST time wearing my beloved spoon earings (becuase they are so heavy)- creation of lisa that i seriously wear daily as a shout out to you.

if only you knew how loved you were and talked about (think lizi pre arrival in guate)

Jen said...

Lisa! SOOOOO good to hear you're doing well and enjoying your time in Africa. You are beautiful, and I am so proud of you. Thank you for your updates--you are amazing!! I love hearing about your adventures. It sounds like your time in Zambia so far has been much like Colleen's. Hard to believe her time there as a PCV is almost up, and yours is just beginning. I sure hope you get to meet her before she leaves--you are both incredible women. :) I love you lots, think of you often, and pray for you always. God bless you, my friend, and remember, the BEST is yet to come! Love you and miss you!

Love,
Jen

Unknown said...

Hey, I came across ur website ( as I was searching more about the Bemba language. My Girlfriend is Bemba (from Mansa) and I want to learn the language but I'm not a genius in learning it (and my girlfriend didn't teach me enough, not a genius too and we stay so far from each other right now and we both speak English). I appreciate what ur doing and all you describe from Zambia sounds so familiar. Its a lovely country. Especially the countryside is so much more real than the "Western" Lusaka where I worked (still nice there).
Stand up for yourself as you are a woman as they have unequal rights compared to what we are used to in "Western countries". Possibly the ladies over there tell you more then they would say to me as a man. They are "charmeurs" but if you say "NO" it's easier to get rid of them then some other africans: They still have respect! Anyway be happy ur a "musungu" as they will respect you for that more then locals.
You're blessed to be in such a lovely community. Zambians are lovely people (I can say the best I know from Afrika) and they deserve more than the underdog and lost image they have right now. Its one of the safest countries in Africa and you will see! The "peacefull country" is not propaganda but the truth.
The only crime there is petty crime but we call that in the West "business". As a msungu you're a person with a $-sign upon your head, be aware of that but being aware of that and tell them in a respectful way wont affect your reputation! Understand the basics of "Kubuntu / Ubuntu --> wikipedia" as it is the guideline to have a good time over there ;-)

Have a good time! (Im jealous about you being there, but I will come back!!!)

Unknown said...

Natutela bwino!